It’s OK to be Tribal . . .

. . . so long as you're willing to work with other tribes on issues of mutual concern. Your tribe is the group with whom you feel comfortable because there…

. . . so long as you're willing to work with other tribes on issues of mutual concern.

Your tribe is the group with whom you feel comfortable because there is an assumed shared world view. People from different tribes can get along with one another, even be curious about one another, but they live in different mental worlds or different soul worlds, if you will. Your tribe is where you feel at home, and everyone needs a home. But you also need to get out a little. And you need to let bygones be bygones when there's been some "history."

People from different tribes can unite around issues where they share common ground. When they do so, they form coalitions, not tribes. So what I'm talking about is inter-tribal coalition building. Effective coalition partners recognize that when you're talking with someone from a different tribe, you respect the differences and keep discussion focused on shared objectives; you don't let yourself get sidetracked into arguments about issues where you know you disagree–like abortion or gay rights, or whatever.

Each tribe might feel very strongly one way or the other about those issues, but it's counterproductive to talk about them. Coalition partners should have no expectation of agreement on any issue except the one around which the coalition is built, and they are careful not to offend coalition partners in the other tribe concerning their cultural beliefs no matter how much you hate those beliefs.

As I've been writing here for some time, this kind of coalition building is essential; it can only happen if culturally conservative tribes find a way of working with culturally liberal tribes, and vice versa, about issues in the economic sphere that are critically important to all.  They need to understand who the real enemy is, and use the power of numbers to defeat it.

It's pretty clear to me that the two-party system in this country is dead.  It's worse than dead.  It's like one of those entitities from "Ghostbusters" that slimes everything it comes in contact with. It's become a dysfunctional joke. The only solution in the long run is for these parties to break up and for smaller parties to form as they do in countries with parliamentary systems, and then for those smaller parties to form coalitions. 

It's not a perfect solution; nothing is. But smaller parties will be clearer about their objectives and more responsive to their constituents, and they will have to bargain in good faith with people from other parties.  They could never get away with the kind of nonsense the Republicans have been pulling lately. They have too much power too gum things up even when they're a minority, and they don't have to bargain or compromise. They win by just throwing a wrench into the machinery because they don't want the machine to function. It's in their interests that it doesn't. 

I think most of us can live with a system that works on compromise, but one in which the compromises are negotiated in good faith (for the most part).  We cannot live with a system that is bought.  When the system is bought, there is no real compromise no bargaining in good faith; the highest paying customer always gets what he paid for behind closed doors. 

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